say it right ceremonies

What do you offer?

I'm hell bent on being different and I love to be challenged to come up with new ways of celebrating love and commitment. If you're looking for a truly out there ceremony, then I'm your gal!

Why do you want to work with the LGBTQ+ community?

Love is beautiful and shouldn't have to be brave. Everyone deserves to be celebrated and so why wouldn't I want to work with the LGBTQ+ community? They should be credited with the vast majority of the art and culture that I consume and so I want to give something back! I believe in equal rights and marriage reform (why can a priest legally marry you and I can't?) so that everyone can be married in the way that is right for them - f*** the patriarchy!

Allyship

I actively seek out and support LGBTQ+ makers, artists and DJs in my personal life. I frequently attend LGBTQ+ friendly nights and parties. I support and join LGBTQ+ protests and demonstrations - most recently, trans pride in London. I follow LGBTQ+ content creators on Instagram to further educate myself on issues in the LGBTQ+ community.

Many of my own community are part of the LGBTQ+ community and I make sure I am respectful of their pronouns and names, particularly those who have recently transitioned. I always speak out when I hear any kind of prejudice against the LGBTQ+ community - in fact I always speak out when I hear any kind off prejudice full stop!

In my work, I share my own pronouns in my email signature and on Instagram. I offer adult re-naming ceremonies for trans people and have spoken about how I am more than happy to marry people within the LGBTQ+ community on instagram.

I also use inclusive language in my wedding content focusing on terms like 'couple' and 'partner' as opposed to 'bride and groom' and I never assume anything about the structure of a wedding e.g. I wouldn't ask 'Will your dad be walking the bride down the aisle?', but instead 'How do you each intend to enter the ceremony space and when?'